The First Post in 2014

Yes it’s almost the end of the year 2014 and this is my first post of the year. And I already began a new work adventure. Still in learning mode – got so much stuff to cover. So you know – it’s a progress they said. However I believe it’s a totally new beginning, seeing new people, an opportunity to improvise and a way to see where life will bring me someday.

How I Wish

How I wish I could write constantly here but I’ve been so busy with my daily schedule whatsoever. Life had been so hectic with tods and baby. And yes we just had another baby a year after Afia was born.🙂

So now it is Mikael (4 y.o), Afia (1 y.o) and Aamal (2 m.o). Go figure how’s my home look like. Hehe..

20 Weeks and Counting

Undoubtedly once you passed the 30 years milestone and preggy, it’s quite different than preggy in your 20s. Personally it affect much on me physically, emotionally and as a whole. At one point eventhough no matter how much I’d love to have a big big family, I kind of giving up on that kind of vision.

Living in a big town, no matter how much you make, somehow it never seems enough. School and nursery cost more than RM1,000.00 per month. Add groceries, mortgage, car, petrol, tol, insurance – just count what could have left. Left alone the stress of driving in jammed, workload, kids problem etc. Maybe that’s why most urban family has less kids than those living in small town.

However right now as I reach the 20 weeks milestone of my 3rd pregnancy, I still felt blessed with this little bundle of joy eventhough I feel unfit and kind of wear off sometimes. Everything happened for a reason, right? I just hope baby and me will do just fine.

The Runaway Maid

  • Ok ni citer pasal bibik terakhir kitorg..
  1. Kali ni amik dr membe hubby kt Medan. Masuk ikut Port Klang je, mmg bajet time ni sbb dh x sanggup nk kuar duit byk2 sbb xtau hasilnye camne. Mase ni Afia dh 3 bln. Ia kerja ok la, dgn anak2 mmg serasi sbb ia pandai ambil ati diorg. Tanye jiran2 ia mmg jarang bawa anak kuar g taman.
  2. Tapi standard la diorg ni. Mula2 kje kate xde sedara mara kt Mesia, adik beradik kt sne dh meninggal. Lame2 kate ade kakak duk kt KL, kawen ngan org Mesia. Lps tu mula mintak cuti nk lawat kakak katenye. Ok la bg sebulan cuti sehari. Salah kitorg gak, bln kedua cuti suh ia naik komuter je sbb umah kakak ia kt KL. Masuk cuti bln ke-4, ia bleh x balik plk. Call smpi cramp tgn x angkat. X kan la x pasan kot, slalu klu kt umah, henpon asik kt poket je. Dh 2 ari x jwb call, ok la consider ia MIA je la.. Nasib gaji ia ari tu tolak kos ia dtg cni.
  3. Ia ni henpon mmg slalu bunyi, katenye ade org usha ia tp ia malas nk layan. Tp klu pk logik, klu x layan, xkn la asik bunyi je henpon tu. Penah skali cuti bwk MIL, MIL duk sebilik ngan ia, pening pale MIL sbb asik tejaga dengo bunyi henpon ia.
  4. Bleh anggap ia ni pengotor. Dh bebuih mulut kate klu botol anak cpt2 basuh, tp ia sanggup kumpul byk2 ptg bru basuh. Mmg x bekenan btul cara ia basuh pon asal dan je. Klu belek botol tu smpi ade hitam2 n bau susu basi sbb lmbt basuh. Slalu klu blk umah, sy basuh lg skali botol2 diorg tu. Bru puas ati.
  5. Klu nyapu, yg nmpk je sapu, yg bwh sofa, bwh rak tv penuh habuk. Sampah pon tunggu penuh bru buang, smpi busuk. Sy suh buang ari2 sblm tdo, x diikutnye. Klu asik ulang ckp nnt dikate membebel plk kn. Lama2 malas nk sound, bkn ape, takut nnt kite g kje anak yg jadi mangsa.
  6. Paling x suke habit ia ske korek gigi, bkn nk basuh tgn plk lps tu. Bkn ape, kite ni pk nnt ia nk pegang anak bagai, hi, geli la..
  7. Yg klakarnye ia ni bajet Mesian sgt, n bajet family kot.. Klu kuar ngan MIL, jumpe kwn2 MIL diorg pon tanye la ia tu sape, cpt2 ia jwb sedara. Hamboi ko.. Paling bangga klu kwn2 sy ckp muka ia x mcm bangsa ia. Bajet tul..
  8. Abes tu lps ia lari, seminggu gak la anta anak g umah MIL sambil cari taska. Skrg anak2 g taska. Dh give up la ngan maid ni kononnye. xtau la akan amik maid lg or x.. ;p
  9. Lps sebulan lari, bleh plk maid ni call mintak maaf katenye ari tu ia dibwk kakaknye g Kelantan, lps tu mse blk xcident, kne jga kakak n anak2 sedara ia la. Sudah2 la ngan ko punye propa k. Sepatah haram aku tak caye, dasar bangsa penipu. Lps tu ade ati plk nk amik brg2 ia sbb ari tu ia cabut sehelai sepinggang je. Banyak cantik. Mmg dasar tul! Tp lps ari tu xde plk call konfemkn nk amik brg lg. Klu call, mmg xnk angkat la, dh tau tu no bru ia.. Bior ia tau plk camne klu call org x angkat.

Kerenah Bibik – Dah Lepas Baru Nak Citer

Ok, sejak kitorg ambik keputusan muktamad nak anta anak2 g nursery, rase tingin plk nk citer pengalaman ngan bibik ni. Klu ikut2kn citer bibik nih smpi muntah ijau pon x abes.. haha..

  • 1st bibik namenye Yani, dlu kje ngan mak kt kedai mkn mak la.. orgnye pembersih gler. memang best la, lgpon x byk ckp, n x suke bersosial ngan bibiks, n syg budak2. Tp since ia kje ngan mak, ia mmg ade bf – org kg tu gak (org mesia). So setiap bln mmg kne blk kg la bg ia dating. Ia orgnye pegang janji, x bertangguh klu nk blk s.alam kol 2pm, mmg ia dh smpi. Tp jodoh kitorg x lme. Mase Mikael umur 7 bln camtu ia nk benti, nk kawen katenye. So kitorg lepaskn la..
  • 2nd bibik namenye Fitri. Baik gak, same cam Yani. Muda tp dh ade anak. Caring ngan Mikael. Mase dtg blom wat permit tp medical result dr negara ia lulus je. Ble wat fomema skali x lps plk sbb ade Hepatitis A. So terpaksa la anta blk. Sian gak kt ia, sekejap je kje. Lepas tu bermula la episod dpt bibik ntah ape2..
  • Ambil bibik dari ejen. Bleh amik trial dlu 2 minggu bayar 200 ringgit. Tp mmg bleh buat org yg xde darah tinggi ade darah tinggi kot. Cara saya klu bibik baru mesti anta kt umah MIL dlu, bior diorg tgk2kn bleh pki ke x. Nak tau ape bibik tu wat?
  1. Bila anak tdo, ia pon tdo. Tp ble anak bangun, ia tak bangun2 lg.
  2. Pagi kt umah sy dh hadap milo secwn, smpi umah MIL kte x mkn ape2 lg, bantai lg milo secwn.
  3. Klu mknn yg dimasak ala2 kg n x kne ngan selera, cepat2 mintak nugget ko.. kt umah MIL ari2 kot mintak nugget. ko kaye kot kt kg ko ari2 nk mkn nugget.
  4. Kuantiti mkn mmg banyak, cam kje kuat tp xde pon.
  5. Ade 1 hari cam biase sy turun nk masak nmpk baju ia byk belonggok dlm baldi kt bilik air. Sy pun ade bawak baju sy turun n suruh ia basuh dlm mesin. Tup2 sy abes masak, saje jenguk dalam bilik air, tengok baju ia yg belonggok tu pon dh xde. Sy nekad matikn mesin basuh. Tarik satu2 baju, ade baju ia skali, siap panties n suar baju yg tekena darah piyed! Memang menjerit sy pagi2 tu. Sy mmg bukan jenis pemarah, tp pagi tu bergegar rumah. Sy suruh ia keluarkan sume baju, bilas n basuh blk. Bkn sy x penah kate klu nk basuh baju pki mesin bleh je, tp jgn la campur ngan baju majikan. Otak ltk kt lutut kot.. Sy klu baju kne darah piyed pon sental dlu sblm masuk mesin.
  6. Kurang ajar – ade ke MIL tgh tgk tv ia bleh je tukar channel. Ko bayo bil astro ker?
  7. Bangun tdo lmbt.
  8. Pukul 8 lebih dh wat mate ngantuk bagai.
  9. Pinggan mangkuk blom basuh tp klu majikan dh tgk tv, ia pon ikut tgk tv.
  10. Tak reti langsung nak ambil ati Mikael, sedangkan kje ia jaga Mikael.
  • Jumpe ejen lain plk. Dpt 1 bibik dh tua skit. Mula2 ingat cam ok, tp rupenye psycho. Tiap2 pg klu tgh nyapu, tetibe pause n ajak sembang. Sikit2 ckp “sy org susah, suami dh takde, anak2 tinggal sne, sbb tu dtg cni nk carik kje, carik duit utk anak2” lps tu nangis smpi teresak2. Lg tu ske ckp sorg2. Kje plk x siap2, asik nk nyembang je. Pening plk, x smpi seminggu tukar.
  • 5th bibik yg ditukar ngan bibik no 4 tu la.. Mula2 kje ok, ngan Mikael pon ok je. Smpi sebln kite pon uruskn la permit ia. Skali rupenye ia dh tinggal lebih mse, so xpe la since ia mmg nk kje, kitorg pon bayokn la dende ia sume bagai n bayo utk ia blk sne wat permit abes ard 8k gak mse tu, tp tawakal je la. Tu pon ejen kte lmbt siap dekat 2 bln bru ia blk cni. So xpe la asalkn dtg kn.. Start kje ok la, cam xde masalah. Hurm, sbnrnye mmg ade je.
  1. Yg ni kejenye slalu sgt lepak taman, bwk Mikael – ktenye Mikael x ske mkn kt umah. Klu ptg2 ard kol 6 tu xpe la kot. Ini tghari pon nk g taman. Sehari 3 kali g taman. Abes Mikael kulit jd tanned, susut plk tu. Bkn ape, sbb kt taman tu ade geng bibiks, nyembang je kjenye. x nyembang gayut tepon. Yg sedihnye Mikael slalu kne ruam, mesti sbb ia slalu lepak tu smpi x tertukar diaper anak. Entah2 anak x mkn sgt pon. Lgpon Mikael ni pembersih, n sbnrnye xde ske sgt g taman, lg2 klu cuaca panas. Lps ia benti, jiran2 ramai yg ngadu ia biorkn je Mikael tu klu kt taman main sendri. Siannye, klu ingat2 geram. Depan kite pijak semut x mati.
  2. Mula2 bwk Mikael naik tricycle g kedai waktu tghari. Lame2 memandai bwk moto majikan g kedai, siap bwk Mikael lg. Dah le x bgtau, berani2 plk, dgn lesen xde. Ingat ni negara ia ke, xde lesen, x pki helmet pon bleh.
  3. Setiap kali nk cuti slalu bg alasan si ejen yg kebetulan sedare ia tu mintak tolong masak kenduri la, ape la. Skali time ia nk benti tu tanye si ejen, ia kate x penah call pon.
  4. Suke bgtau jiran2 yg kitorg ni x bg ia mkn la, umah xde mknn la. Hamboi, yg ko mentekedarah tu ape? Klu kuar mkn, x penah pon tinggal ko tau. Klu dpt hamper raye, kt mulut ko je kut abes jajan2 tu sume.
  5. Mase ia kte nk benti hubby ngamuk gler. Ye la x smpi setahun kot. Dh la duit dh abes byk. Katenye dpt kje kedai tp kitorg agak ia ade bf sbb asik gayut je kjenye.
  6. Lps phase nk benti ni, hubby suh bg mse sebln. Dlm mse sebln ni mcm2 pangai la ia wat. Ade skali nk kuar buke puasa, ia x nk ikut. Katenye bosan ngan mknn hotel la. Tp sbb takut ia lari, kitorg pakse gak la ia ikut. Hubby kte ingat ko bos ke, kitorg plk nk ikut ckp ko.
  7. Penah skali ntah mne ntah ia dpt beli paper negara ia, yg ade ayat2 provoke negara kite ni. Lps tu wat2 ltk kt tmpt kasut, konon2 nk psiko la tu. Xde maknenye.
  8. Mse anta ia g kt ejen nk benti tu, mcm2 bende terbongkar. Kate ejen klu ia cuti, bkn lekat kt umah, asik kuar je. Ejen kte ia x penah pon call mintak tolong bagai tu. Haish, ntahla..
  9. Mase ia call nk tebus permit, kitorg mintak ia bayar RM2,500.00, ok la ia bayar, tp mse dtg nk bayo tu dressing ia dh berubah 100%. Tudung dh terbang, rambut straighten, siap pki baju ketat2 n pki wedges lg. haha.. hubby gelak sakan, bajet hot kot..

Sambung next entry la nk citer psl Final Bibik.🙂

Afia is Getting Her 1st Teeth!

It could be said that my children growth chart are pretty consistent. Mikael started walking and getting his first teeth at 2-3 weeks before he turned 1. And so is Afia! In fact they were both born at 38 weeks. Even so Afia could be said progressing faster than her brother during the crawling stage, and she is pretty much has endless energy than his brother. However these major progress only showed at this very moment.🙂 I could see last night that her front lower teeth is coming out. Quite a late bloomer but Alhamdulillah Allah.. They are both growing up well, and that’s matter. I could not ask for more.